You know when you just feel the vibes? The strong undercurrent of sensual & flirty vibes from the male specie? IT CAN BE AWKWARD if it’s not reciprocated!! It literally made me not want to hang out with them at all. So here is what helped me.
✨I began setting boundaries & speaking up on where I’m at FROM THE GET GO. I’ve been doing this for the past year A LOT & it is funny,, invigorating & empowering! Seriously the reaction of the man who is lurking lustfully in my vibration is SO caught off guard & taken back— not only that but they gain SO much RESPECT for you. QUEEN BEE in da house! Don’t fuck with me,, bb!💛 Its tough love I tell yah! “Look dude,, I love who you are & hanging with you! It’s fun! But I’m not interested in any thing more.” Or,, here is a scenario that happened 3 frickin’ times in the past couple months. “ I think your rad,, but I’m never gonna sleep with you Jack!” Doing this has saved me a lot of time & energy. Instead of slowly beating around a bush,, I cut right through it & get to the point ASAP. If they choose to still hang with you after,, GROOVY! If not,, still groovy!
I’ve realized in my 27 years of life that I only want people in my life that I can be real & honest with. If they still love me & except me for me than I’m SO GRATEFUL. Because I’m grateful for the REAL in life. The real honest people,, (honesty is true love) the real #organic food & The real quality products & materials.
So for ladies that like to hang with the broskis,, this one is for you. So we can make it a real & authentic hang out from the get go. Nobody’s got time for the uncomfortable & unreciprocated energy. You feel me?! ILY🌼
Xo,, Jöjö 💋